i love shoes, feminism, equality, gender nonconformity, activism, and calling out the patriarchy. i am the former president of the jackson area national organization for women http://jackson.nowms.org and currently an intern at planned parenthood.

i have a blog with a lot of varying themes http://ladylamia.wordpress.com but i wanted something that was strictly for my activism and feminism, so here you are!

the views and opinions expressed in these blogs are my personal views and opinions, they are not the official positions of the national organization for women (NOW), planned parenthood, or any other organization that i am or have been affiliated with.

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25th June 2011

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Senator Tom Duane's Moving Speech for Marriage Equality →

If you missed it last night, check out the video of highlights from openly gay Senator Tom Duane’s speech about marriage equality.

“most of all i want to thank my family, and i want to thank louis. you know, he was there when my brother died, my mother and my father. i was there when his brother died, when his mother and father died and i loved his parents. my whole family loves louis and i love louis’ family, and our nieces and nephews know us only as a couple. and we are like married to them, but of course we’re not, not yet. but the exact same love, the same commitment…

marriage says that we are a family. louis and i are a family, and marriage strengthens all families. it’s going to strengthen my family and all new york families…

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25th June 2011

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New yorkers take to the streets to celebrate gay marriage vote.
Great photo gallery over on gawker, check it out!

New yorkers take to the streets to celebrate gay marriage vote.

Great photo gallery over on gawker, check it out!

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11th April 2011

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10 Facts About America's Gays →

10. If all 50 states and the federal government recognized marriage for same-sex couples, the federal budget would benefit by over $1 billion each year.

1. 9 million LGBT people live in the U.S., 3.8 % of the adult population.

check out the full list at the advocate’s website. [via @unityms on twitter]

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8th November 2010

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Double Dose of DOMA Challenges →

The Defense of Marriage Act is due for a two-pronged attack on Tuesday, as two separate organizations and sets of lawyers, representing different plaintiffs, plan to file lawsuits in federal court challenging the federal definition of marriage…

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21st October 2010

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Missing: Fierce Advocate
Via: Robin McGehee/Get Equal

Missing: Fierce Advocate

Via: Robin McGehee/Get Equal

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20th October 2010

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Dan Choi Re-Enlists →

Follow the link for video/full story.

Yesterday, U.S. District Judge Virginia Phillips refused to stay her decision to end “don’t ask, don’t tell,” the longtime ban on openly gay men and women serving in the armed forces. By the end of the day, military recruiters were accepting gay and lesbian candidates. And Lt. Dan Choi, the Iraq veteran, West Point grad, and gay rights activist, went down to Times Square to reenlist. His request is being processed. (Choi first attempted to enlist in the Marines, he said on Twitter, but he was told he is too old.)

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19th October 2010

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it’s no wonder we have to tell lgbtq youth “it gets better” when their peers are saying things like this about a memorial for gay kids. it saddens me that people, especially young people, can be filled with so much hatred and intolerance.
the comment that disturbs me most is the one that says “accept the punishment”. the “punishment” for being lgbtq is death? i’m gonna stay the heck away from that kid…
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it’s no wonder we have to tell lgbtq youth “it gets better” when their peers are saying things like this about a memorial for gay kids. it saddens me that people, especially young people, can be filled with so much hatred and intolerance.

the comment that disturbs me most is the one that says “accept the punishment”. the “punishment” for being lgbtq is death? i’m gonna stay the heck away from that kid…

Image via: Knol Aust/Unity MS

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18th October 2010

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Mississippi Sheriff’s Department Fires Corrections Officer For Being Gay

Via MS ACLU website:

Andre Cooley, a corrections officer for juvenile detainees at the Sheriff’s Department in Forrest County, Mississippi, was fired when his supervisors discovered that he was gay.

On June 14, 2010 while at home and off-duty, Andre called 911 after his boyfriend became physically violent. One of Andre’s supervisors was among the officers responding to the call and learned at that time of Andre’s sexual orientation. The day after the incident, for which Andre was identified in the police report as the “victim,” Andre learned that despite having an exemplary record, he was being fired from his job. When Andre asked if he was being fired because he was gay, he was told “yes.”

Most people in Mississippi who work for private companies have no legal protections from employment discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation. But because the Forrest County Sheriff’s Department is a governmental entity, the Constitution protects Andre and other employees from anti-gay discrimination. The ACLU is suing the Forrest County Sheriff’s Department, Chief Bolton, Sheriff Billy McGee and Staff Sergeant Brannon for violating Andre’s equal protection and due process rights guaranteed under the Fourteenth Amendment.

No one should be fired from their job because of their sexual orientation or gender identity. We urge you to take action and tell Congress to pass the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) which will prohibit employment discrimination against people who are LGBT.

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16th October 2010

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FCKH8 video. Awesome but very NSFW!

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15th October 2010

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Anti-Gay Bullying Suicides: Who's to blame? →

this is a very powerful and very correct.

“America’s children are under attack. But what difference is there between the schoolyard tormentor who literally bullies to death a gay or questioning youth, and their adult counterparts — like the National Organization for Marriage, or Focus on the Family — shrouded in Orwellian nomenclature, who provide them with the ammunition?

what organizations like FOF don’t come right out and say (like westboro baptist church does) is that they don’t care if gay teens commit suicide. to them, the tragedy is not the death of a human being, a young person in pain, but that the young person was gay. at least the “god hates fags” people have the decency to tell the truth - they’d rather see their children dead than gay.

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